Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Dressing It Up

More than ever, brides are looking for ways to bring an element of individuality to their wedding day. We have lots of brides come in with fun, fresh ideas that ask us, “Can I do that?” Almost always, the answer is “yes!” The old rules are no longer the gold standard for modern weddings. Here are a few fashion ideas and trends seen over the last several months.

Wear one look for the ceremony and another for the reception.
We have sold two gowns to countless brides – one more traditional for the ceremony and another more avant-garde gown for the reception. Have you ever tried on a gown that was super sassy and you loved it, but you could not imagine actually wearing it for the wedding? Instead, it could be a great option for a reception gown. Generally, these gowns tend to have elements that reflect the personal style you display in your day-to-day life – ruffles, a low-cut back, deep-V in the front, lots of sparkles, a killer slit up the side – you name it. The reception dress is definitely a party gown and a great way to show your personal sense of style. With lots of designers pushing the envelope right now, there are lots of choices available.

Another second dress option is to look at some of the tea-length gowns available in bridal stores. You can even find some darling options in the bridesmaid section. There are many companies who offer beautiful, well-made bridesmaids gowns in silk or lace. Many of these companies make these gowns in white or ivory (they are usually a bit more expensive than their colored counterparts). We have seen brides change into an ivory tea length gown and pair it with fun shoes, a sash, bow, or over-the-top jewelry that matches the color of the bridesmaids’ gowns. It's always very cute in pictures. Whichever style you choose, long or short, the reception gown is usually easier to move and dance in.

If wearing two dresses is not for you, you can also achieve this effect by changing up some key elements of your look from wedding to reception. Perhaps your ceremony look is classic: subtle makeup, simple jewelry and a veil. For the reception, swap out the classic jewelry and go for something with a little drama, like a set of chandelier earrings and a big gemstone bracelet. You could add smoky makeup to your eyes, wear a deeper shade of lipstick, or switch your veil for a silk flower or feather comb placed behind your ear. In an instant, you're a party bride!

Choose different gown-styles in the same color for bridesmaids.
Every bride hopes to choose a style of bridesmaids dress that her attendants would love to wear again. Why not choose three to five styles of gowns from a designer that you would like to see in your wedding and let your bridesmaids choose which one suits them best. It is often win-win: You've picked the styles that reflect your day, and your bridesmaids have a little say in how they will look that day, too. Varieties of styles offer a visual interest while the color creates continuity in your wedding-party's appearance.

Match flower girls to the bridesmaids' apparel.
Another trend we are seeing is having the flower girls wear dresses that match the bridesmaids’ gowns and not the bridal gown. There are many bridesmaid companies that offer these tiny dresses. They are a darling way to mix up the status quo.

Article written by Ingrid Kent at Mestads Bridal and Formal Wear

Monday, March 22, 2010

Google Takes On Wedding Planning

Is anyone safe from Google? They seem to be a player in just about every industry. They have recently introduced a new feature through their "Google Docs" that has a number of templates to help you with your wedding planning.

If you are a "do it yourself" bride, a number of free tools are available.


If you have used a Google Doc, you will find these incredibly easy to use. These are nice because they are stored online- and you can allow others helping to plan your wedding access to these documents. The changes are then made in real-time...so there is no more emailing your guest list back and forth with your mother-in-law.

If you have a smart phone, you most likely have access to a Google Doc "app" in which you can access and update your data on-the-go.

This technology does not replace the skills of a wedding planner, but it is a great option for people that are looking to take care of things themselves.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Bridal Store Brawl - Video

Just when you thought you've seen it all. An upset customer and her family members start a brawl inside of a bridal store in Michigan.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/09/bridal-store-brawl-caught_n_492134.html


Thursday, March 4, 2010

Do Your Homework When Choosing Vendors

It seems pretty obvious..."Do Your Homework When Choosing Vendors for Your Wedding". But what does that exactly mean? Which questions should you be asking? Who should you be contacting for more information?

It may seem like a lot of work to do if you have a dozen or so different vendors for your wedding...but it is a MUST!

Our organization, the Central Minnesota Wedding Association, can certainly help you get started. Vendors in our association cannot just put up an awning and get listed on our website or Bride Guide.

Each new member in our association submits an application to our Board of Directors. Applications are reviewed, reference calls are made, work samples are taken into account and a vote is cast.

Once in our association, members commit to doing business that adhere to our Code of Ethics. If a vendor falls short, we are not afraid to remove them from the association.

Don't be afraid to ask prospective vendors questions! For some sample questions, check out this link.

See what the Better Business Bureau has to say about vendors you are looking into. They also offer some tips on their website.

Be sure to take a look at some past work samples and ask to talk to some former clients. Ask them about their experience with the vendor you are looking into- and if there were any 'surprises' after the wedding.

Your wedding is not a day that you want to be dealing with substandard vendors. Do your homework and make sure you are choosing only those that are the highest quality!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Do It Yourself or Doing Yourself In?

Napkin holders made out of spent toilet paper rolls? We all know the importance of holding the line on the wedding budget these days...but where do you draw the line? The media is great at showing how "easy" making invitations and centerpieces is.

But is it worth it?

Having a budget is important for your wedding. It's also important to figure out what pieces of your wedding are the most important to you and your spouse-to-be. The dress? The photos? The venue? The cake?

The weeks leading up to your wedding can get a little stressful with a lot of small details needing attention. If you are choosing to do some things yourself, don't wait until the last minute. Get as many things done early as possible. You'll thank yourself later.

For more information on this topic at a national level, check out:
http://ow.ly/16Gt91

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Cold Feet Are OK at This Wedding

I've heard of weddings that take place in some unique places...but never on a frozen lake in the middle of winter!

Lori Gluth and Todd Hansen exchanged vows on Lake Minnetonka on January 30th. The ceremony literally took place on the lake, inside of a semi-heated tent.

This was the first wedding 'on ice' that the Bayview Event Center has hosted...and I'm guessing it probably won't be the last.

Check out the video and read more about this wedding here.

Friday, January 22, 2010

Win $1,500 in Free Jewelry on 1/23

The Engagement (After) Party is tomorrow night at Mestad's. The event will take place from 5:30 - 7:30 p.m. (after the store closes!)

You'll have a chance to win $1,500 worth of jewelry from J.F. Kruse for just showing up!

You'll also be able to informally chat with some of the top wedding experts in the area, as you plan your big day.

Here are the details:

The Engagement (After) Party

Saturday, January 23rd
5:30 - 7:30 p.m.

Mestads Bridal and Formal Wear
2716 Division Street
St. Cloud, MN 56301

Mestads is opening their doors after-hours for this special event. Please RSVP before the event by calling 320-252-9634.